How do I deal with my dad?? Help!!!?

I am 14 and my dad thinks I am destroying my life and going down the wrong road. I feel like he is not proud of my accomplishments. He seems like he wants me to be perfect. Anyway, I make good grades in school, I finished my 8th grade year with a 3.5, I made all honor bands in my school and I think I can pretty much say I'm the best muscian in my school. I went to 2 National Young Leaders Conferences that my teachers nominated me for. I got 25+ awards in middle school academically and athletically. I play 7 instruments that I perfect, I was a starting position on my team in football so I pretty much love my life. Now I have lots of friends and my dad wants me to act like I'm such a perfect son like a leader. Well, I am a leader but I do make mistakes and I know I can improve but my dad is putting too much pressure on me! He hates how I go to bed at 1-4 AM and that I play video games and still get 8 hours of sleep in the summer and weekends not school nights. He always wants me to do what HE wants me to do. And I still practice and do chores and when I forget he jumps all over me! He thinks that I'm gunna end up like a drug addict or something and get killed but I can assure you I far from that. How can I talk to him and resolve this problem?!